Home is the best place for women.
Hundreds and thousands of shrieking voices trying to prove a rectangle, a circle cannot do so, Why? Because it's unnatural. Similar is the case with my opponents they are trying to take a road that is deviant to normal. Worthy President, before starting my arguments let me first undo the ties in the topic. Apparently the notion HOME IS THE BEST PLACE FOR WOMEN seems to be:
• anti-feministic
• snatching all the economic rights from women and
• Against their independency and many more such statements would have been passed by my valuable opponents.
For them I want to quote Baltasar Gracian a Spanish philosopher:
"Don't take the wrong side of an argument just because your opponent has taken the right side."
I unquote.
Dear opponent if you little ponder over this statement you will come to know
• this statement is the custodian of all women rights,
• it is their protection against all sexual assaults,
• this statements is the guardian of their honor and prestige and
• it can serve to be the doctrine for comfortable and balanced lifestyle.
Let me start my arguments with the survey report that is showing that consumption of anti depressants is increasing in women since last 20 years. Same report suggests that women are suffering from more psychological disorders these days then any time in the history. Let me tell you the reason. And the reason lies in the shift in our social structure. Women are now forced to multi-tasking.
• She need to bear and rear children
• She need to cook and clean
• She is responsible for training and educating her kids
• She has to listen her boos
• She has to fulfill official assignments on time
• She has to look beautiful and attractive at the same time
Now tell me what else can happen to her? But anxiety, depression, feeling of un-fulfillment and in the end --- addiction to anti depressants.
Now let us look the other side of picture. What happened if "SHE'-- the same woman forced to take pills to survive, would stay at home. She will be happier mother and a satisfied wife showing no symptoms of worry and dejection. You know the reason -- it happens so because in this scenario SHE has assumed HER natural role which has been prescribed for her. She is made to be loved and cared but not to be exposed to this harsh world of economic hardships and blunt competitions. This un-natural exposure leads her to un-natural consequences. Shakespeare summed up this philosophy in his play Macbeth in following words, I quote:
"Unnatural deeds do breed unnatural troubles"
Lady Macbeth Act V Scene 1
I unquote.
A famous quote suggests:
"A house is made of walls and beams; a home is built with love and dreams."
And whose love and dream it would be -- No one but a woman. She has that magical power to turn a structure of bricks and concrete to a heavenly place of bliss known as HOME. The place where her man seeks relaxation and happiness, where her children can place their toys with complete confidence that nobody will harm them. Then why SHE has been forced to stay away from her heaven. How we can ask her to left her kingdom of dreams to serve others. If we do so then we will be brutal to HER.
We are Muslims and consider the holy Qur'an as our ultimate doctrine of guidance and assistance. Now let us have a look of what this holy book suggest to its follower women.
• Ch4 Verse 34 where ALLAH subha u talla declears men as "the protectors and maintainers of women" and "Men are in charge of women"
Allah has appointed men as women's protectors and maintainers. So, why she withdraws this right and decides to go beyond her natural limits to earn.
Through this forum I would like to suggest all my respectable sisters to contemplate on this holy doctrine and must not violate it just to fulfill worldly desires and luxuries. Allah has the ultimate wisdom and knowledge He has assigned duties to every one according to one's capacity. So, we need to understand and assume our natural roles where men are the bread earner and women are responsible to take care of their domestic life.